＂Don’t get pregnant without getting married＂

"I thought my love would go smoothly, but I didn’t expect to fail in the end. I know that this is no wonder that everyone else is on my own, but I don’t want to get pregnant before unmarried. Is it wrong? If he can’t get married with me, I can not get married, I am not married, I can’t get married, I can’t get married, I can’t get married, meWithout courage and no ability to raise a child alone. I don’t want to be an unmarried mother. Even if you break up with me, I don’t care. "

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After Feiyan was in love, she was very hit, and she abandoned her for a while. In addition to borrowing wine, she was fascinated by tattoos.

She felt that the faint pain during tattoos could make her temporarily forget the pain of falling in love, and tattoo was a proof of her break with the past.

Because she often patronizes the same tattoo shop, and the tattooist Guo Ling slowly knows it, and runs to the store every day.

She likes to watch Guo Lingjian’s tattooing, and she likes this kind of patient man.

She guessed that he would definitely be patient with love. When she learned that he was still single, she decided to pursue him.

She often invites him to dinner and drink. When the relationship between the two people is getting closer and closer, she shows her heart.

Guo Ling reminded her, "I am busy working every day, I may not be able to accompany you all the time."

"It’s okay, you don’t have to accompany me, just accompany you."

When she said, I bought a good meal and ran to his shop. After get off work, the two went home together.

She loved very crazy and active. Driven by her, Guo Ling’s passion slowly burned.

She thought that as long as she loved it wholeheartedly, she would always be happy, but she didn’t expect it, but she made a mistake.

After falling in love, she found that Guo Ling was better than previous boyfriends and could satisfy her in all aspects.

He knew how to capture the cause and knew how to vote for him. Unconsciously, Feiyan began to accept him.

One day, Guo Ling asked her, "Do we want a child?"

Feiyan was inexplicable, "We haven’t married yet, what do we want to do?"

"With a child is a complete home! I like children, I want to pass the craftsmanship to him."

"No, the child’s affairs, let’s talk about it after getting married!"

"Then we get married early."

When it comes to getting married, Feiyan has shrunk a bit, she is not sure if they can go until the day of marriage.

"When I was sure you will always be good to me, I will consider marry you again."

Guo Ling agreed that Feiyan thought he was respecting her, but in fact he was planning a conspiracy.

After that, he loved her even more crazy, and Feiyan appreciated the unprecedented pleasure.

She felt that she had fallen, and she couldn’t do without Guo Ling for a moment, and obeyed all his requirements.

When she rolled the sheets before, she would calculate the safety period. Later, her love was difficult, and she slowly ignored this step.

It wasn’t until that month’s holiday was postponed for many days before she didn’t realize that it was wrong.

Her holiday has always been accurate, and there is no reason to postpone it for no reason, unless … she was panicked when she thought of pregnancy.

She immediately thought of going to the hospital, but she didn’t dare to go to the hospital, and she was afraid of being pregnant.

She comforted herself, "Wait, maybe come in a few days."

But in the end, the holiday did not come, but her breasts had obvious pain, and occasionally pregnant vomiting occurred.

After determining that after pregnancy, she asked Guo Ling to discuss, "I’m pregnant, what should I do, blame you!"

Guo Ling laughed, "I am pregnant, we can get married."

"But I don’t want to get married so early."

"But you are pregnant! If you do n’t get married, your belly will become bigger and bigger, and it will be more troublesome at that time."

"I want to knock it off."

"You dare! You are pregnant with my child, I don’t allow you to mess around."

Guo Lingxian proposed various temptations, and finally threatened, telling her that if she killed her child, he couldn’t spare her.

Feiyan is very entangled. She doesn’t know what to do. She doesn’t want to get pregnant first, and she doesn’t want to marry Fengzi.

She was afraid of her friends to know that her parents knew, and even more of the worldly words, she felt that she would go crazy in the end.

After thinking for a long time, she finally decided to kill the child.She did not tell Guo Ling that a person secretly went to the hospital.

Guo Ling was covered in the drum, thinking that she was still pregnant, and often bought her various supplements.

Feiyan felt that all this was premedeled by him for a long time. Now he pretended to have a smile, which was too abominable.

She didn’t want to hide him anymore, picked a suitable day, and told him the truth about abortion.

After he knew, he became furious and hit her, "Why are you so selfish, why don’t you tell me the abortion?"

"You are selfish, let me get pregnant without getting married. Have you thought about my feelings?"

"You roll me, I don’t want to see you anymore, you are a murderer, you murdered my child."

Fei Yan cried and left, she felt very wronged, "Obviously his fault, why blame me?"

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Feiyan said, "I am very painful. I didn’t expect this period of love to experience so many things. I don’t want to go to abortion, but I really don’t want to be pregnant before they are unmarried, it will make me even more painful. I want to step by step from love.Go to marriage, and then ask the child again. I don’t want to disrupt this rhythm. I don’t have any preparation for the child. He doesn’t care about my feelings at all, break up when you break up! What else can you do? "

Qiu Yan said, "If you want love to advance step by step according to your own rhythm, keep your own principles and bottom lines, and don’t just enjoy the joy of love. If you don’t want to be pregnant first, then do the corresponding ones.Contraceptive measures. Pregnancy is not a trivial matter, it is not a simple abortion. The key is that your physical and mental will leave a lot of harm. If you don’t want that kind of pain, don’t just care about passion.","

Mihi said, "Men must know how to respect women in love. What she doesn’t want to do, don’t force her to do it, let alone hide her. If you think you sneak and let her get pregnant, she will be willing to be willingMarry with Fengzi? Don’t forget that women are forced to be in a hurry, everything can be done. She doesn’t want to marry Fengzi, she will choose an abortion, and abortion is also the result of you forced her. "

Donglin Xiting said:

Two people who really love each other will discuss many things, rather than one party to do it.

Before you are sure that you two love each other, you have to learn to observe whether he respects your thoughts from daily life.

If you clearly stated that you don’t want to be unmarried first, and he is still unscrupulous to give up contraception, then you have to be careful.

If you don’t care about these details, you may fall into his designed trap, so that you can’t get out.

Don’t dedicate yourself because of impulse. Once you are pregnant, you will disrupt your love rhythm.

After getting pregnant, why not do a good job of safety from the beginning?

If you don’t want to get pregnant first, you must be responsible for your crazy move, otherwise the last pain, you can only bear it yourself.

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