Sister Liu is a woman with a particularly stable emotion. She speaks with people forever and kindly, with a smile, and she has never had a loud questioning and anger. Talking with them is like a spring breeze.Her emotions also affect her children. The tone and expression of her daughter’s speech are exactly the same as Sister Liu. Although she is angry, she can still maintain a peaceful tone. When the theory is theory, the speech speed is slow and the words are clear.
For the reason, Sister Liu’s Mr. Liu was not at home for half a year. She needed to handle housework, take care of her children, and was busy with work. Although she had the help of her mother, she was still very hard.In the long run, Sister Liu could not hear the slightest dissatisfaction and complaints. The child’s education was very good, and the work was very good.
I think it should be the most rare wealth of a woman’s life for a long time to maintain emotional stability.On the contrary, I have lived in the northwest since I was young. Compared with the southern girls, I have a gentle and irritable constitution in the northern girl, such as dry firewood in winter.My husband said that I cheated him and obviously wanted to find a gentle wife. I didn’t expect me to look docile. In fact, it belonged to the cola type. It shakes gently and was a little angry.Especially during pregnancy and one year after giving birth, the temper is unable to accept it. When you say emotion, a little thing can destroy my mood for several days.
To be honest, during that time, my life was bad, my mood was often rainy, and it also affected my family.I am envious of Sister Liu, how can I be so stable, I suddenly thought of the word Taishan to describe her, calm, calm, not happy and sad.However, how could life not bring us bad news and put our emotions into a trough, which is unavoidable.How can we get out of the barriers of emotions and achieve our greatest wealth?
Learn to accept.There are many things that exist objectively. No matter how hard we work, it cannot be changed. Escape is not a solution to the problem. Sometimes it will complicate the problem.Positive emotions and negative emotions are part of our lives. Coexistence with negative emotions is a kind of ability given to life. Learn to accept negative emotions, respect ourselves and things that dislikes, and face it bravely.Emotions are out of control, hysteria, harming others.
Read more and learn more.Reading can make people argue, discern the good and evil, do not do it with evil, do not take goodness and small.Reading can expand our vision and improve our cognitive ability. When the horizons are wide, the psychological capacity is large. Some trivial trivial matters are not worried.Tips.No matter when and where, reading and learning will always be too late.
Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude.The experience of life tells us that the optimistic mentality is self -evident to life.One thing happens, first look at its positive side, don’t always hold the negative side, increase trouble.Life will not change because of your complaints and sorrows.Even if life is not what you want, you have to face it calmly. To warm the life, life will return your confidence and sunshine.
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